By Slanted Light

Lol - see, I'm mostly happy to have people reading what I'm up to, but I tend to think that we should probably have said something to each other somewhere along the way - and mostly we have... My fic is all elsewhere, and unless you want to know me me there's really no reason to be here in the first place - and vice versa, of course...

But then it comes undone a bit too when people move onto other fandoms, and suddenly my lovely Pros-y flist isn't a lovely Pros-y flist any more... it's got other kinds of loveliness in many other ways, but... I really really don't care about SPN, for example and yet everyone seems to be posting comment posts for new eps or something... But then... Oh, *head hurts*...

A couple of times I've found out that someone's filtered me off their flists for some bizarre reason (I never know, why not just defriend me? Presumably they want to know what I'm up to, but don't want me to know what they're up to? Odd...) and when that happens I do just defriend people, cos... that's not friendly... *g* I'd understand if it was filtering off particular posts, but when you're filtered off all of them?! People's relationships and views of lj are eternally fascinating!