By Slanted Light

Good point even about terms like "flirting" etc... It's so maddening, and I suppose I notice it myself when it's applied to a group I'm part of, and less so at other times. It's such a human thing, but I can't believe we haven't advanced since people began pointing that sort of thing out - why shouldn't there be exceptions to anything in a culture, history is full of them, and yet we still go oooh, noooo, couldn't be! *headdesk*

And hee! Actually I do feel a bit that I've inadvertantly challenged myself now, so... *g*